Dhaam Ke Meethe Bhath

In the foothills of the Himalayas, laid a small yet gorgeous town, Mandi. The town was straight out of a Ruskin Bond novel, with lush green trees, blooming bright flowers, a flowing cold river with chirping birds and grazing cows around. There wasn’t any clamour of heavily treading vehicles nor any smoke from industries. The place was resided in by simple people, leading even simpler lives. There wasn’t luxury but there was peace, there wasn’t the comfort of cushions but the people of Mandi woke and slept in the arms of nature.

The population of Mandi was either engaged in small businesses or in service for shops/farms in their own or nearby villages. Both ways, the people of Mandi had limited resources at their disposal, contributing towards a life that was slow and all wrapped in humility. Amongst all the people that were a part of the village, there was a beautiful family living by the stream.

Rampal Tehran was a 30-year-old man who was born and brought up in Mandi. His ancestors too, belonged to Himachal Pradesh and worked in the fruit farms of wealthy land owners for years. Continuing the tradition, Rampal began working in the vast farmland of the Mehrotra’s, after finishing high school from the village. He was soon married to his aunt’s neighbour’s daughter, Roop. Matching up the standards of Rampal’s fair complexion and 6-feet tall height, Roop herself, was a lovely girl with small, green eyes and long, traight brown hair. After marrying Rampal, Roop too began working at the Mehrotra farmland to help her husband with some extra income. A year after their wedding, Roop gave birth to a beautiful baby girl. The couple knew no boundaries of joy at the birth of their daughter, Roohi. Both Rampal and Roop, spent all their time with their daughter, playing with her by the river, taking her to the village mela, teaching her native rhymes and songs and putting her to bed. Their lives were devoted to their young girl and each-other. Theirs was a family that everyone only had blessings for.

With Rampal’s unimaginable affection and Roop’s obsessive care, Roohi grew up into the most endearing, chubby little girl. At around 5:30 in the morning, Rampal used to wake up and walk down to the riverside to fill up 2 buckets of water for the day. On his way back home, he bought half a litre of milk from the dairy for Roohi from the previous day’s savings. After reaching home at around 6, he would place his hand on Roop’s forehead, signalling that it was time to wake up. Then, both Roop and Rampal would together clean their warm, one-room house, keep the pots of daliya and tea on the stove and finish their everyday chores. They would do all of this in hushes and murmurs so as to not wake Roohi. Exactly at 7:30, Rampal woke Roohi up while Roop readied three plates and cups for the family. In utmost agony, Roohi opened her eyes as her deep sleep broke. With sleep-laden eyes and a grumpy face, she sat on the floor with her parents and gulped down the sweet porridge and tea. “When will I cook for you and baba?”, Roohi asked Roop eveyrtime the three sat together for breakfast. Whenever Roop sat down by the stove to make simple yet delectable meals, Roohi always stood by a distance and admired her mother dearly. Although Rampal and Roop dreamt of educating Roohi into a police officer, little did they know that their girl dreamt only of jumping into her bed for a long, deep sleep and of cooking hot Pahadi Mutton for her parents. After dropping Roohi off to the village school, Rampal and Roop rushed to the farms and worked extremely hard the entire day to make ends meet. Sama Begum, their 60-year old neighbour lived alone and had the leisure time to pick Roohi from school. In the hills, the sun set sooner than other places, leaving the small town of Mandi in the blanket of darkness, unprotected from chilly winds. Roop and Rampal came back home from the farms just before the sun set.

Surrounded with endless forests from each side, it wasn’t safe to be out in the streets at the time of dusk in Mandi. Sama begum, the only source of town gossip for Roop, usually sat with her over tea and narrated tales of robberies, rapes, murders, accidents and other mishaps in the town. Which is why, all the residents finished their work of the outside world well before the sunset and spent the cold evenings locked up in their warm, cosy huts with kehwas and chicken stews.

Life kept passing by, with Roohi’s giggles and snuggles. With the simplest of needs and modest of dreams, Rampal and his family barely complained of having less money. They were content with the little they had and that was enough to keep the wheels of their lives moving. Roohi was now 7 years old, who no longer had to be woken up by Rampal nor had to cared for excessively. She was now a big girl who loved helping around the house, accompanying her father to fetch milk and water, cleaning the mud pavement outside, chatting with Sama Begum and also learning to make tea for her parents. Roohi was now truly a big girl.

It was one of the coldest nights of the year on December 18th. The sun had set sooner than it usually did. Sama begum and Roohi were sipping tea, occasionally peeping on the other side of the road to see if they could already spot Rampal and Roop returning from work. “Don’t worry, you finish your Maths homework, there’ll be here anytime soon. You know it is the time when berries are flushed into jam jars. The farm is bustling with activity. I am sure they must be tied up with work.”, said Sama begum. “Sama Begum, amma has been unusually tired these days. I am certain that the work has taken a toll on her. Baba also talks lesser than usual. How about I surprise them with Kehwa and Meethe Bhaath today? You could help me and we could all eat tonight’s dinner together.”, suggested an excited Roohi. With immeasurable love and caution, Roohi made her first ever pot of Meethe Bhath, a dish that the entire family ate on days of celebration or on the days when Roohi was sad. The entire room filled up with the aroma of jaggery and rice while on the other side Sama Begum readied the kehwa. Racing around the hut, Roohi firstly laid a mat on the floor and then slowly placed pots on it. “Everything is ready. They are still not here. I am starving. They never have been so late.” “How about you eat now and once your parents are back from the farms, you can share some more with them?” No, Sama dadu. I’ll eat with Baba and amma only.”

Rampal and Roop hurried from work, knowing that they were quite late and Roohi was alone at home. Just as they were rushing down the hillside towards the town, they heard howls of wolves. “Wolves! These are wolves, Rampal. We will be killed.” “There is no need to panic, we can easily manipulate them in the dark and find our way home safely. And you never know, these can be wild dogs too.” Both their hearts sank in fear, their skins turned cold and pale as the stark darkness only grew and the howls intensified. But only to protect the other from the claws of fear and hopelessness, none of them worded the real situation that struck them. “My Roohi! Will I ever be able to wrap her in my arms? I don’t think so. No! I didn’t know today morning was the last time I sat with my innocent daughter for our last tea together. Rampal, what will she do without us? Where will she go?” Rampal could not process anything. All he knew was that they had to run and run as fast as they could. In moments of horror, they misjudged the end of the slope. In less than a second, they both slipped down the hills, their hands entangled.

There was an eerie silence around the hills after that. No cries, no howls, no thud from the falling. The place was enveloped in a mournful quiet.

Back in the hut, Roohi covered her cold face with Roop’s shawl. She could smell her mother’s fragrance and that itself was comforting enough for her to continue waiting for them to return. The night became endless as a scared Roohi, with teary eyes and shivering hands, sat by the door with Sama Begum, waiting for her parents to come back. The hot pot of Meethe Bhaath went cold and odourless. “We’ll eat when they come back. Don’t worry Sama Begum, we can heat the pot up and they’ll be hot and nice again. My first Dhaam ke Meethe Bhaath. Mummy and Baba must be so hungry.”, murmured the little Roohi.

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Where Hate Triumphs Over Love

Have you ever paused to ponder over the riveting conflict between societal approvals for love versus hate? Why is that being in love always invites dubious reactions from not only the society but familial responses are pretty much similar too. Often, we all come across innumerable instances where communities stand strongly united while waging combats based on hate or revenge. However, rarely do we spot cases where people show solidarity towards those in love, especially when their prospective partners come riding from a cultural world that is different than theirs. A point that is beyond any contention is the fact that reaching your love destination in a culture like ours is no carousel ride. There is an ocean of hurdles to clear before one can finally settle down with the partner of their choice. What one needs through this tough ride, is the resilience to spring right back from societal pressures and strengthen the tusk to hold your assertiveness high. It is integral to continue reminding people that for once, objecting hate can be the right thing to do but objecting love, under no circumstance should be sanctioned correct. Love is a feeling to be celebrated. Parents must be proud when their children fall in love with someone outside their families. Isn’t it absolutely admirable to see your child having the heart and ability to contain love for somebody else, without conditions and beyond selfishness? Ask, pause and ask again. What’s wrong? Love or hate?

Let’s break down the above paragraph to form relatable pieces. Proclaiming your love for someone in our culture will blatantly invite absurd/aggressive reactions from families, especially elders. What is astonishing is the fact that a feeling as incredible as love, a feeling as pure as love and a feeling as rarely gifted as love can lead to such painful consequences. From a simple “How dare you?” to horrifying instances of murder, what is cleverly covered in terms like ‘honor killing’, love sees it all. Again, what for? Why is it so problematic to be in love? How can love harm anything or anybody? Love in the maximum that it can bring, can only bring hope, compassion, humanity and prosperity back in the lives of robots-turned-humans. Banishing love is killing all of these prospects.

Meanwhile, hate between two people, two communities or even two nations, rarely calls upon such dire reactions. It again is truly unfortunate how easily one learns to accept hate, finds all terrifying or toxic ways to deal with it. People readily join hands to become accomplices in hate. Well, even if they don’t, the war that is waged against Love is never waged against Hate. It might be waged for it, though.

Notably, love as an emotion is too powerful as blessing to be bestowed on just anybody. You will notice through the journey of life that very few people have had the privilege to fall in love. The feeling is supremely deep and can fit in only in hearts that have bigger spaces, only in souls that are full of light, only in minds that contain real intellect and only in people who are Beautiful. Beautiful enough to be able to feel an emotion like that, to make space for it and to be able to accept it, more so, own it and announce it. The latter phases demand for courage that very fewer from the few possess. The ultimate miracle is to receive love for the love you give. This doesn’t happen humanely. It’s beyond the work of an ordinary being, it’s a miracle sent from the heavens. Now when you block a bond that was built somewhere beyond human contemplation, you are committing nothing less than a sin. To object love, is to object the power of the Unknown and Unseen.    

On the contrary, one fuming inference is that hate is such a shallow of an emotion, that it can find it’s space in the smallest hearts with the littlest space, in brains that haven’t learned the real wisdom, in souls that are dark and void and in people that are Evil.

Sit back and question. How and Why would you object love. How and Why would you rather not object hate from taking birth in the hearts of your children. How can you allow hate as a reaction to be followed after love? Love happens to only the brightest, be proud that you have the ability to experience it. Truly hope that we reach a time where hate never triumphs over love again. Love deserves to win. Every time. It deserves to be celebrated and not feared. Every time.

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Kya Papa Bhi Kabhi Boodhe Ho Sakte Hai?

Dheere dheere unke kaale baal safed hone lage hai,

Baat karte huye achanak ruk kar kuch sochne lagte hai,

Chashmah khud maathe par tika kar; fir poore ghar mein dhoondne lagte hai,

Dhoop mein newspaper padhte huye; baithe baithe so jaate hai,

Log kehte hai umar ho rahi hai tumhare papa ki,

Par unhe kya pata mere papa kabhi boodhe thodi ho sakte hai.

Ab pehle ki tarah samose kachori nahi khaa paate hai,

Diabetes hone ke bawajood chupkar mithayi churate hai,

Chhote bacho ki tarah baat baat par zidd karte hai, ladte hai,

Bazaar tak jaakar bhi thakaan se choor ho jate hai,

Fir khud hi kehte hai “Ab umar ho gayi hai shayad”,

Par papa ko bhi kya pata ki mere papa kabhi boodhe ho hi nahi sakte hai.

Pata nahi aaj kal sabke insurance details kyu bhejne lage hai,

Chaahe gaadi chalana ho yaa bank jaana,

Ab mujhe aagey karne lage hai.

Baar baar bolte hai seekh lo ab yeh sab, samajho yeh sab,

Umar ho rahi hai tumhare papa ki, kal naa bhi hu toh tumhe aana chahiye,

Unki baat ko sune bina hi keh deti hu,” Papa aap kabhi boodhe ho hi nahi sakte hai.”

Agar bewaqt so jaaye yaa do baar bulane par bhi jawab na de,

Toh mujhe bhi ajeeb si ghabrahat hone lagti hai,

Gehri neend mein jab bacho ki tarah unhe sota dekhti hu,

Tab kabhi kabhi sochti hu ki kahi papa sach mein boodhe toh nahi hone lage hai,

Par fir yun hi khud ko firse mana leti hu,

Nahi nahi! Tere papa kabhi boodhe ho hi nahi sakte hai.

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The Love That Wasn’t Meant To Be Easy

If loving you was easy,

I wouldn’t have been standing alone on a full moon night,

There wouldn’t be a constant, weary search in my eyes,

Sleeps would have meant tranquility and not just a means to escape,

And I wouldn’t keep hoping for you to come, knowing that you wouldn’t.

If loving you was easy,

I wouldn’t have felt pain watching those two lovers by the street,

My music wouldn’t be only about endless waits and betrayals,

The kohl in my eyes and the lipstick on lips would have looked merrier,

And I wouldn’t keep hoping for you to come, knowing that you wouldn’t.

If loving you was easy,

My laughter wouldn’t have sounded so full of fatigue,

My friends wouldn’t always be asking, “Are you okay?”,

Every time that I went to a new café, I wouldn’t have been scared of spotting you with her,

And I wouldn’t keep hoping for you to come, knowing that you wouldn’t.

The truth is if loving you was easy,

My heart wouldn’t grow strong and immune to enduring pain,

I wouldn’t have learnt to cuddle myself to sleep,

I wouldn’t have worn that dress for myself, knowing that you won’t even see me,

After that dark night alone, I wouldn’t have been able to wake myself the next day and make myself a cup of coffee;

And I wouldn’t have the strength to wait for you, knowing that you might never come.

Yes, loving you was not easy.

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Little Dreams

In the barren lands of Rajasthan, in the midst of mighty deserts, there was a barely known and teeny sized village, Bhaleri. Even if you were to be an explorer, there exists an extremely thin chance of you to come across this name, let alone visit it. In this incomprehensible world, billions exist and with them, billions of stories and billions of fates. Some we know about and many we are unaware of. One among these life stories is the story of a beautiful child, Jaanu. That’s what they called her, perhaps she had a formal name too, but that was only limited to a mere registration identity for her village school.


Jaanu was only six years old. She was just as fair as milk with big eyes, carrot nose and apple cheeks. Jaanu was the walking teddy bear for the entire house for she was plump and stout. Whoever visited their house, in a matter of just a few minutes, was found playing with her excitedly. She was one of those magical children who could win hearts with just the charm of their innocence. Everyone was fascinated with the yellow flower clip that she wore in her hair, with her chubby arms laden with yellow and green bangles, with her limitless appetite for Kheer and her go-to orange dress that she saved for every special occasion.

Jaanu lived in an outright traditional environment with her family. Her grandfather, a farmer had two sons. The elder, Jaanu’s uncle was an engineer in the city. His wife, tempted with her husband’s independence and progress, demanded to study further and was then allowed to leave behind her son and a strikingly beautiful daughter to go settle in a hostel and prepare for government examinations. The younger son, Jaanu’s father, was in no mood to abandon the leisure of village life. He was content with the income that came from their agricultural produce. However, due to societal pressure and taunts for being unemployed, Mukesh decided to open a small internet shop, five miles from their house. He was proud of the fact that his was the first and the only shop in the village that could draw youngsters and officials for all their work for which initially, people had to travel to the city. Jaanu’s mother, jealous of her sister-in-law’s life, was always found with a frown on her face. She had neither the ambition nor the prerequisites to indulge in further studies. So, she spent her time in the kitchen along with the other ladies of the family.

Right next to their house lived Jaanu’s bestfriend, Garima. Jaanu met her every day and if there were days when her angry mother wouldn’t allow her to or if there were guests at home, she would throw a pebble on Garima’s terrace. Garima then, would come running to the top of the house and the two girls would communicate with gestures for hours. They couldn’t go to same schools due to the disparity between their house incomes. Moreover, Jaanu was adamant to go to a school that had uniforms and classes, unlike Garima’s, which was only an Aanganwadi with just one teacher and an open ground in the name of a school.

Bhaleri was a secluded place in all terms. There was barely any means for people to know about the world or get any exposure. If at all they wanted anything beyond the necessities, they could either travel to the nearby city or visit Mukesh’s shop to watch videos on the computer system. Life was slow and self-sufficient. Nobody bothered to get more than what they already had; cows for the milk to feed the family, farms to fill stomachs, a cart where t-shirts could be bought, an annual fest where stalls for exciting city things were set up, one school and a hospital. That’s all they could ever need. Maybe on somedays the men needed to smoke beedis or hookahs and now they had Lakshman’s moving cycle for that too. After the smoke and gossips of who loves whom, they bought packets of chips and chocolates for their children and walked back home.

It was an unusual day at Jaanu’s house, on one summer morning. As she was hurrying to ask Mukesh to drop her school on his motorcycle, her mother asked her to go back to sleep. Later, it was found that they were being visited by their relatives from the city. The entire house was running around, preparing to welcome their influential guests. Jaanu peeped from the pillow as she rolled in the bed. She could see her mother was constantly mumbling, walking in and out of the kitchen. Her elder sister, was sweating while she mopped and cleaned the entire house. Jaanu’s grandmother sat on the mat and monitored every bit of the preparation. After all, it was her elder sister visiting them. Jaanu was only getting excited because she knew it’ll be a day all about delicacies, bowls of kheer, no homework and lots of attention.

She quietly slid out of her bed, took a bath with boiling tap water, dressed into her orange frock and put on her yellow flower clip. Then she realized, it was not an ordinary village guests visit so she tip-toed to her mother’s almirah and slyly poured talcum powder all over her neck and a patch on her face. She just couldn’t stop giggling. With her little feet she ran to the verandah and threw a stone on Garima’s terrace, hoping that her bestfriend hadn’t left for her school yet. Garima came running. Jaanu with her little hands, signaled, asking Garima on how was she looking also then noticing that she had forgotten to wear her bangles. After her little chat, she went back to her room, finished up her final dress up regime and sat on the netted bed with her grandmother, waiting for the car to arrive.

Time flew faster than one could imagine. Everybody came in their classy city attires, walked out of their big white SUV, carrying hampers and gifts in their hands. The kids got busy playing around with calves, goats and thatched huts. The adults sat in the room which had a cooler and drank glasses of cold lassi. It was a good day, everyone fought for chances to have Jaanu sit on their laps. They had their usual Rajasthani thalis for lunch with onion fritters as the side dish. Just as the time for Kheer came, Jaanu quietly excused herself from the gathering, filled a big bowl of Kheer for herself and licked till the empty bowl shone as though it were clean. After that whenever anybody asked her if she had Kheer, she would innocently shake her head and say ‘No!’ and share their bowl of the dessert too. After filling her stomach with bowls and bowls of it, she ran to the kitchen, making a twisted face and said, “Ma, it was too sweet! I think you added sugar twice.”

Just as the guests were preapring to leave, Jaanu’s distant aunt, who was in awe of the little girl said, “Jaanu, you go to school everyday, study so much..What do you want to be when you grow up?” The lady knew that either Jaanu wouldn’t understand the question or she would just giggle and to the most, would say she wanted to be a teacher just like her elder Aunt was aspiring to be. But to her surprise, Jaanu did not even wait for the question to end! She flung her little hands up in the air, and screamed “Faauji”! Her eyes lit up when she said that. Everybody burst out in laughter but her aunt was extremely intrigued with the response. It was so unusual for a six year old girl, being brought up in a traditional household in a village to have an ambition as strong and as clear as being a soldier. So she further inquired, “How did you know you want to be an Indian soldier?” “Every morning when we gather in our school ground for prayers and the Indian national anthem, I see army trucks passing by. I get so excited looking at them, that I also wave at the soldiers. On many days they end up looking at me, they smile and wave back. Grandpa tells me that they are heading to the border to kill our enemies and protect all of us. I want to go to the border and fight too!”

Nobody could ever imagine that a child like Jaanu would be garnering a passion so deep. That little girl could think more profoundly than probably anybody else in their entire village. Her aunt, mesmerized, then quickly looked at Jaanu’s mother. With a veil on her head, she was just laughing on what Jaanu had said earlier. It broke the lady’s heart to realize that had Jaanu’s parents listened to her dream more sensibly or patiently, they could actually mold her into an Indian soldier in the coming future. But they not only passed the talk as a mere farce but did not even pay the slightest attention to it. Nobody believed in the dream that glistened through her eyes. But Jaanu kept looking at her aunt, hoping that she would validate her tiny, blooming desire. The aunt gave the girl a tight hug, asked her to never forget about her dream, promised her to gift her movies on soldiers and then blessed her.

When the guests had departed in their car, Jaanu ran towards Garima’s house and got busy showing her the gifts that the city people had brought. The two girls played in the mud till dusk when Jaanu’s mother ordered her to quickly gulp down her night milk glass and go back to sleep. With kilos of kheer already in her stomach, Jaanu slept, with the yellow clip clutched in her hands. That night, she dreamt of the same army truck, this time with her aunt too inside. As she with the Indian Army soldiers halted outside Jaanu’s school to pick her up, Jaanu leapt in the bus with laddoos in her hand and drove off to the border to also fight back the country’s enemies.

Just as I said, in a world of so many stories and so many destinies, this was Jaanu’s little story and her not so little dream…

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A Promise of Eternity





The auditorium was brought to life that day. Glowing yellow bulbs, thrilled voices, diverse perfumes fused into pleasant fragrance and sparkling outfits of the seated, infused breath into our enormous woody hall. The batch of 2019 was graduating and how! I had always dreamt of this evening, of draping that golden saree and of holding my degree. But never had I imagined this evening to be so distant from my dreams. Amidst the hustle, all of us lined up to go onto the stage but not everybody was awarded the opportunity of delivering a short speech in front of the entire University and all the esteemed guests and parents. Having been the head of the Literature committee and the author of various published works, the counsel approved of me as a worthy candidate. Unquestionably, standing in the queue to walk up to the stage, was making my heart race like Bolt and my limbs freeze like the Antarctica. It was the most important evening of my life and without a doubt, I knew what I had to speak about.

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